Comments on: My tongue occasionally hangs out…I'm sorry. Just point it out, and I'll stop. http://halftimelessons.com/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/ Mon, 30 Aug 2010 19:54:53 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Cheryl http://halftimelessons.com/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/comment-page-1/#comment-735 Cheryl Tue, 23 Dec 2008 21:19:00 +0000 http://174.120.127.91/~halftime/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/#comment-735 I caught this late. My ex would look at another woman at the mall etc.. and say..."did you see the tits on that one???" Lovely,...*eyeroll* LOL I caught this late. My ex would look at another woman at the mall etc.. and say…”did you see the tits on that one???” Lovely,…*eyeroll* LOL

]]> By: jsprik http://halftimelessons.com/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/comment-page-1/#comment-734 jsprik Mon, 03 Nov 2008 19:23:00 +0000 http://174.120.127.91/~halftime/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/#comment-734 ah yes, "spoken" like a true pig, i mean man. lol you have a good point here, jay. as much as i hate to admit it. men are wired differently than woman. BUT men do need to realize that we as women are often insecure about ourselves, as it is, without them walking around with their mouths hanging open , tongues wagging and drool pooling on the ground beneath them!! it is all about respect!! we don't need to be reminded about how we have maybe gained a few pounds or we have to work a little harder at hiding our lines and wrinkles, we are fully aware of this!!! AND in closing... most of our husbands are not as young or buff as they once were , either!!!!!!! ah yes, “spoken” like a true pig, i mean man. lol you have a good point here, jay. as much as i hate to admit it. men are wired differently than woman. BUT men do need to realize that we as women are often insecure about ourselves, as it is, without them walking around with their mouths hanging open , tongues wagging and drool pooling on the ground beneath them!! it is all about respect!! we don’t need to be reminded about how we have maybe gained a few pounds or we have to work a little harder at hiding our lines and wrinkles, we are fully aware of this!!! AND in closing… most of our husbands are not as young or buff as they once were , either!!!!!!!

]]> By: Jamey http://halftimelessons.com/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/comment-page-1/#comment-733 Jamey Mon, 03 Nov 2008 16:13:00 +0000 http://174.120.127.91/~halftime/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/#comment-733 I have to agree Jay, but I think as long as it isn't a habbit, I wouldn't worry about it too much. My Hubby rarely check other females out so if it did happen it would hurt my feelings too. and I think Annonymous should let this one go, but if it becomes more often then there may be a problem, they need to discuss it. I have to agree Jay, but I think as long as it isn’t a habbit, I wouldn’t worry about it too much. My Hubby rarely check other females out so if it did happen it would hurt my feelings too. and I think Annonymous should let this one go, but if it becomes more often then there may be a problem, they need to discuss it.

]]> By: ktmay http://halftimelessons.com/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/comment-page-1/#comment-732 ktmay Mon, 03 Nov 2008 01:34:00 +0000 http://174.120.127.91/~halftime/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/#comment-732 good job with the advice. <br/>you should make this an advice column style blog.<br/>seriously.<br/>i must not be a normal woman, because i can't help but ogle a good looking woman either. <br/>if i see my husband looking at a pretty woman (which isn't THAT often, but it happens) i usually just look at her too...<br/>i might even say "she's so pretty huh?"<br/>i know he loves ME. i know i'm pretty. <br/>i can look at and appreciate gorgeous women without a drop of jealousy.<br/>but sometimes we ACT like we get jealous , in a joking way.<br/>like if josh is flipping through the channels, and a commercial comes on and it's some dude with no shirt on (does nothing for me) i might go "oh go back to that channel...what was that?"<br/>LOL <br/>and he'll act all mad about it. good job with the advice.
you should make this an advice column style blog.
seriously.
i must not be a normal woman, because i can’t help but ogle a good looking woman either.
if i see my husband looking at a pretty woman (which isn’t THAT often, but it happens) i usually just look at her too…
i might even say “she’s so pretty huh?”
i know he loves ME. i know i’m pretty.
i can look at and appreciate gorgeous women without a drop of jealousy.
but sometimes we ACT like we get jealous , in a joking way.
like if josh is flipping through the channels, and a commercial comes on and it’s some dude with no shirt on (does nothing for me) i might go “oh go back to that channel…what was that?”
LOL
and he’ll act all mad about it.

]]> By: brit http://halftimelessons.com/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/comment-page-1/#comment-731 brit Sun, 02 Nov 2008 18:31:00 +0000 http://174.120.127.91/~halftime/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/#comment-731 I know my husband looks & I am 100% ok with that.I am not worried about "natural urges" haha I am confident enough in myself [& with him also[ to know that neither one of us will overstep the boundary of you can look but dont touch.It is just human nature to appreciate beauty & admire it. I know my husband looks & I am 100% ok with that.I am not worried about "natural urges" haha I am confident enough in myself [& with him also[ to know that neither one of us will overstep the boundary of you can look but dont touch.It is just human nature to appreciate beauty & admire it.

]]> By: AmySprite http://halftimelessons.com/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/comment-page-1/#comment-730 AmySprite Sun, 02 Nov 2008 17:41:00 +0000 http://174.120.127.91/~halftime/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/#comment-730 Indeed, men and women differ on a thousand different points. I agree with your post and am thankful that my DH is not a constant looky-loo when it comes to gorgeous ladies passing by. <br/><br/>He heard Paul Newman say something great about this, years ago, when asked how he had managed to stay married for so long in Hollywood.... "It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you come home for dinner." I'm guilty of looking and flirting, too, and as long as we both still fall in the "can't" group of marrieds, then all is OKAY. :) Indeed, men and women differ on a thousand different points. I agree with your post and am thankful that my DH is not a constant looky-loo when it comes to gorgeous ladies passing by.

He heard Paul Newman say something great about this, years ago, when asked how he had managed to stay married for so long in Hollywood…. “It doesn’t matter where you get your appetite, as long as you come home for dinner.” I’m guilty of looking and flirting, too, and as long as we both still fall in the “can’t” group of marrieds, then all is OKAY. :)

]]> By: Clare http://halftimelessons.com/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/comment-page-1/#comment-729 Clare Sat, 01 Nov 2008 13:08:00 +0000 http://174.120.127.91/~halftime/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/#comment-729 thank you jay for laying this all out for us...i don't know that i have ever caught the hubby in the act of looking at others. i am sure his time will come, for right now i will hold him up in my mind as the perfect man, haha! thank you jay for laying this all out for us…i don’t know that i have ever caught the hubby in the act of looking at others. i am sure his time will come, for right now i will hold him up in my mind as the perfect man, haha!

]]> By: Jori-O http://halftimelessons.com/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/comment-page-1/#comment-728 Jori-O Sat, 01 Nov 2008 06:45:00 +0000 http://174.120.127.91/~halftime/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/#comment-728 Yeah, so the whole looking at another woman is irritating. I agree with Jay, though on the point of simply showing respect...her husband ran her over with the shopping cart??!? And a COSTCO shopping cart to boot--the Suburban of all shopping carts?? When "innocent" ogling yeilds severe bruising of your spouse, it's time to rein it in, buddy! Yeah, so the whole looking at another woman is irritating. I agree with Jay, though on the point of simply showing respect…her husband ran her over with the shopping cart??!? And a COSTCO shopping cart to boot–the Suburban of all shopping carts?? When “innocent” ogling yeilds severe bruising of your spouse, it’s time to rein it in, buddy!

]]> By: Jenni Jiggety http://halftimelessons.com/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/comment-page-1/#comment-727 Jenni Jiggety Sat, 01 Nov 2008 00:30:00 +0000 http://174.120.127.91/~halftime/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/#comment-727 All men aren't pigs...just some. <br/><br/>I do like to think he has a "type" and that I am IT. Once he made a comment about how hot he thought a news anchor was and I was shocked because she was a brown haired, brown eyed hispanic woman. She was beautiful, sure...but I was all WOAH buddy, SHE can't be your type because *I* am your type.<br/><br/>I am admittedly the jealous and irrational type though... All men aren’t pigs…just some.

I do like to think he has a “type” and that I am IT. Once he made a comment about how hot he thought a news anchor was and I was shocked because she was a brown haired, brown eyed hispanic woman. She was beautiful, sure…but I was all WOAH buddy, SHE can’t be your type because *I* am your type.

I am admittedly the jealous and irrational type though…

]]> By: Tony http://halftimelessons.com/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/comment-page-1/#comment-726 Tony Fri, 31 Oct 2008 20:17:00 +0000 http://174.120.127.91/~halftime/2008/10/my-tongue-occasionally-hangs-out-im-sorry-just-point-it-out-and-ill-stop/#comment-726 Ok Jay, (this is Tony's wife, Colleen writing, BTW) so if men are pigs and you're a man...oh, wait, you're a lesbian...then wouldn't that make you a sow?<br/>All this just makes me laugh! People marry for a reason and that is to love, respect and appreciate wholeheartedly the one they're with. Men and women ARE wired differently and that's to be expected and accepted. It is OK to look! Hey, I enjoy looking at Tony's subscription to Playboy! Ok Jay, (this is Tony’s wife, Colleen writing, BTW) so if men are pigs and you’re a man…oh, wait, you’re a lesbian…then wouldn’t that make you a sow?
All this just makes me laugh! People marry for a reason and that is to love, respect and appreciate wholeheartedly the one they’re with. Men and women ARE wired differently and that’s to be expected and accepted. It is OK to look! Hey, I enjoy looking at Tony’s subscription to Playboy!

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